Charlie’s Longevity Secrets
When we last encountered Charlie a few weeks ago, I told you that, at 105 years of age, he had slipped on the ice while shoveling his front walk, broken his ankle, and driven himself to the hospital. I heard that piece of the story from others, and like many good stories, it was slightly exaggerated. When I visited Charlie recently, I got the real version. Plus a lot more fascinating stuff.
He did slip on his icy front walk, but it was before he had actually started shoveling. He didn’t drive himself to the hospital, his daughter did. Charlie does, however, still have a license, and up until the injury he was still driving. (There’s a classic 1967 Mustang convertible in his garage. He bought it new.)
The part about Charlie dating actor Chris Cooper’s mother is true. They get together frequently for dinner. As I wrote previously, he showed me a photo of the two of them with Santa last Christmas. Sweet couple.
The part about him playing the sax is also true. How he became a sax player is a giant clue to his makeup.
When Charlie was eight, in 1913, his minister father died in a bizarre elevator accident. The elevator operator turned the crank before his father was completely aboard, causing the elevator to knock him down, crush his chest, and push him into the shaft where he fell nine floors.
Charlie, his mother, and four sisters were left without much of an income. Charlie figured that if he learned how to play the sax he might be able to make some money. On the third floor of their house he could pick up a weekly live broadcast of a local swing band on his little crystal radio set. He taught himself how to play by listening to the broadcast and playing along with the band. Later, when he found out he’d have to be able to actually read music to get any gigs, he taught himself how to do that, too.
Charlie made money playing in dance bands all through college at Missouri, and medical school at Northwestern. (In the mid-1920s!) While at med school in Chicago, his band had a chance for a two month summer gig on a ship bound for Asia. But the audition was in Seattle, and the train ticket was expensive. He heard about a man who needed a transfusion, so Charlie went down to sell his blood. Amazingly, the man turned out to be one of Al Capone’s lieutenants. After the transfusion, the mobster’s wife approached Charlie with a big roll of bills and asked him how much he charged for his blood. Charlie knew the going rate was $35, but the ticket to Seattle was $120. So he somewhat nervously told her $120. She peeled off the bills “like it was nothing.”
After 105 years of living a remarkable life, Charlie has a lot of great stories. I saw pictures of him surfing in Hawaii (in the mid-1920s!), and he showed me a slot machine one local illegal-gambling-house owner used to pay off some medical bills. (It still works. I lost a few nickels in it.) He was reluctant to play the sax for me because his dentures were acting up, but he did play me a reel-to-reel tape of him improvising some melodies. It was beautiful. The man has honest-to-God talent.
I could ramble on about all the adventures he shared in two hours, but let’s get to the possible reasons for his lengthy lifespan.
Charlie has a birthday coming up next month and the family’s planned a big celebration. I asked him if he ever thought he’d live to be 105, and he seemed both surprised and philosophical about it. The broken leg, although completely healed, has slowed him down a bit. He doesn’t want to fall again, and especially doesn’t want to go through physical rehab again. (Who could blame him?) He also has some macular degeneration in one eye and has decided to quit driving. He jokingly says his kids are fighting over that 1967 Mustang.
I wanted to know how he’s done it, so I asked him what he’s done to take care of himself. I pointed out that in all the pictures he showed me, he always looked fit and trim. Did he exercise a lot or eat any special way? Not really, he said. He walked a lot, but that was about it.
Charlie thinks his longevity is a genetic gift. His mother lived into her late 90s, and one sister lived to 102. And none of his sisters or mother (or himself) ever had any kind of cancer. So we’re talking about some strong genes here.
But a couple of other things stood out. I asked him how he spent the last 35 years since retiring from medicine. To put it mildly, Charlie stayed busy. He played a lot of golf, traveled the world fishing, and especially loved photography. (Among other things, he gave me a tour of his darkroom.) He also owned 10 acres of land with several horses. Both the land and the horses took a lot of work.
That acreage, as it happens, was in the middle of what now is a very wealthy suburb. He sold it some years back to a developer. I observed that if he still had it now, it would be worth millions.
“I don’t care about that,” he said. “I never think about it.”
“Really?” I asked. “Not a bit?”
“No regrets,” he said. If you’re living, never have regrets.*”
* Do you think that might have been a factor?
* That, and as Kate Jackson (wife of rockabilly hero Roddy Jackson) suggested: playing the saxophone!
© 2010 Greg Tamblyn

July 28th, 2010 at 8:45 pm
Thank You for that! !!!
July 28th, 2010 at 9:14 pm
I was just feeling sorry for my 60 year old bones and when I read about Charlie I felt so warm and alive, the Thought of my 60th birthday approaching, just faded away. i WISH I COULD MEET HIM AND GIVE HIM A HUGE HUG. Thanks for that beautiful story. Sweet Blessings to you. ~~~ Normajean
July 28th, 2010 at 9:29 pm
Thank you for that, Greg. At 76, I have another 30 years to go. (And with all that I’m doing, I need it.) “-)
July 28th, 2010 at 9:33 pm
What a wonderful story about a long and beautiful life. I so agree: never, never, never stop loving life!
July 28th, 2010 at 9:45 pm
I’m gonna remember that one, and start living by it! “If you’re living, never have regrets.” Spot on.
July 28th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
Wow. My grandfather was born one year later than Charlie, and he pooped out mid-1980′s. (My grandmother was first). I’m thinking ‘exercise and attitude’. That’s my interpretation.
Oh, and hope and purpose. You generally need to come up with that from somewhere unseen
July 28th, 2010 at 11:23 pm
Thoroughly enjoyed the story Greg – the name Charlie caught my eye as that is the name of my son’s dog who continues to teach me about living in the present – yes would say having no regrets keeps the spirit free and cells healthy. I recently heard an 80 yr. old woman sing on Britain’s Got Talent, “No Regrets.” Seems there is a theme going here.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAwOZvvGsRs&NR=1
July 29th, 2010 at 1:43 am
Thanks for sharing the rest of Charlie’s story, Greg! What a remarkable man! I love his philosophy that if you are living, have no regrets. I’m sure that has contributed a lot to his longevity! May he continue to enjoy many more years of good health!
July 29th, 2010 at 4:48 am
Thank you for sharing that lovely story…..at 67 years of age with a perfectly healthy mental and physical body….I think it all has to do with ones attitude of gratitude about life. Live and light to Charlie has he celebrates another beautiful year of his life.
July 29th, 2010 at 6:41 am
Love Charlie’s story! Thank you, Greg! And when people ask my age I love telling them,
“I’m as old as God and as young as this instant!”
I love life!
And that’s the way it really is.
Love and a big hug to you, dear friend.
Joyce
July 29th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Inspiring. Speaking of Charlie…In a few weeks I’m going to start my Grand US Tour a la Travels with Charley alone–at 73. Love your posts. Thanks.
July 29th, 2010 at 9:04 am
~~”But I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world, and a desire to enjoy the world. That makes it hard to plan the day.” ~~
I think Charlie has found that perfect blend!
“If you’re living, never have regrets.”~You go Charlie!
Thank you Greg for bringing us such an uplifting, inspiring story! Beautifully written as always.
July 29th, 2010 at 12:11 pm
What a wise man. “If you’re living, never have regrets.” Sounds like he’s had a rich, full life.
July 29th, 2010 at 3:27 pm
Always love your storytelling. Thanks for sharing Charlie with us!
July 29th, 2010 at 9:08 pm
Greg, Thanks for sharing Charlie with us! His comment about “no regrets” is one of the secrets of life, I’m convinced. As I enter my 47th year today, I have Charlie’s example reminding me that I have plenty of time left to enjoy this wonderful life we’re given. Blessings to you both!!
July 30th, 2010 at 1:45 am
Thank you for sharing such an incredible story of gracefullness, appreciation, and positive mental attitude. Life is definitely a blessing. Charlie’s story is a refreshing course about seeing always the brighter side of life with no regrets. Let’s enjoy it and make our journey count.
July 30th, 2010 at 9:42 am
Great story Greg. Thanks for getting the facts straight!
Really…. What a beautiful gift his life has been. Makes us wonder, Hum… What will our story be like when we reach that age?”
July 30th, 2010 at 10:23 am
Thank you for this story. I’m In my early 80s and certainly appriciate Charlies wonderful life. No regrets, yes, that is truly the best advise all of us can use as we zip along in this busy, crazy wonderfull life.
July 30th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Thanks again for another great story, Greg! I missed the earlier story about Charlie – where can I find that? I know I know, I’ll read your older blogs…but I’m taking my time. We can all learn alot from someone who is 105!
July 30th, 2010 at 8:03 pm
Hi Greg: Many thanks for the great, inspiring story about Charlie….When are you coming back to Unity of South Bay? We all thoroughly enjoyed your presence and wisdom! Much Love & Many Blessings….Christy N
July 31st, 2010 at 1:56 pm
Wonderful message.
thank you greg.
namaste’
July 31st, 2010 at 8:02 pm
You share the most wonderful, real-life stories about people and places. And you’re a great messenger of the positive experiences of life as you tell these stories and from the messages from your fans, it’s obvious you continue to touch the depths of our hearts as you make us smile and ponder!
July 31st, 2010 at 11:39 pm
Undoubtedly, Charlie’s genes contributed mightily to his longevity, but I’m also thinking that the brains, guts, initiative, humor and adventurousness has something to do with it, too.
Great article! Keep ‘em coming!
August 4th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
Hi and thanks for the wonderful story. I feel that Golf may be a big part in Charlie longevity. As for me well it just makes me happy to get on the links any where and anytime. I love the song you wrote about Golf Greg, ‘Chasing a dream’. Greg have you played Golf lately? Hope so! If you ever in Portland I would love to take you to a great old course in town. all the best, John
August 5th, 2010 at 4:52 pm
dear greg “mahalo” for the bio! truly inspiring
noticed somone mentioned Unity (as in “church”?) here on Maui we would love to see you – ideally filling the MACC (arts and cultural ctr) How much do you need to get here? (maybe during whale season when it’s cold everywhere else?)
would consider the italy trip if my hubby and i did not alraady have tx for Utah in Oct
please sstay in touch
LOL and gratefulness
jean
August 6th, 2010 at 12:19 pm
Hi Greg!
) but I do beleive if you change your perceptions then your world will change too—I think he did that.
Thanks for sending this along to me. I would love the old guy–I like his spunk but I also love his love of life. Genes are cerainly a part of it( especially Levis 501s
I’m glad your you! Lots of Love, Van